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“How can I learn to be better at bonding with people? I want to be able to form deeper connections and make closer friends.”

– Blake.                                                    You always hear that relationship is the basis for long term personal and business success.

.“Care” is the only strategy you need to connect and establish a great relationship that is based on trust and friendship. 

There have been lots of studies done on bonding. They show that to create strong, emotional bonds with people, there are several simple tips you can follow.

Here’s how to be better at building a bond with someone:.    

  1) Be friendly .....                                                      

Studies show that we like those who we know like us. In other words: If you make it clear with your words and actions that you appreciate a friend, that friend will probably value you more.                                    

• Be warm and friendly
• Give compliments
• Show that you are happy to see someone
• Tell them that you think it’s fun to hang out with them
• Keep in touch.                                                                                                          

    2)Focus on what you have in common...   

  We like those we feel similar to. Focus on your similarities rather than your differences, and people will feel more connected to you.   If you have a tendency to end up in disagreements, see if you can spend more time bonding over what you do have in common.    Maybe you and your friend both love sports or Star Wars movies or Neil DeGrasse Tyson pre-controversy. Whatever brings you together, make that bond stronger by focusing on the things you like to do or talk about together.                                                              

3) Talk about thier interest / hobbies/ current events....   

  It’s common wisdom that people love to talk about their hot buttons. Find something, an idea or a philosophy or a hobby that others are passionate about and just ask a question. With the power of social media today it is not hard to find hot buttons to focus on.                                                                                                                                              

 4) Better yet - give personalized gifts...         Make a gift that you are good at in your hobby. Whether it is writing, painting, technology, computers, these personalized gifts can be practical. Upgrade a computer program, knit a scarf, crochet, sew a shirt, or make a photo album – these ideas create memories and plenty of usage.                                                                                                            5)   Be open to giving and receiving feedback....                                                                  Being honest on both sides of the relationship is an act of caring and trust. Real friends tell you the truth, even if it’s not easy to hear. In the same way, you need to be able to give honest feedback to your friends.       When someone gives you feedback or hints about something you do, be accepting and open to change rather than defending yourself. If your friend does something that bothers you, tell them in a non-confrontational way how you feel.                                                                                        6) Get involved and bring ideas...                     People are always working on some projects, professionally or personally. Get involved and bring ideas. People express themselves through their work, as a hobby or in business. When you dive into something they’re working on and offer resources and your findings, you tell the other person you appreciate them for who they are and who they’re trying to be.                                               

7) Be comfortable ,Be real, Be authentic you....                                                                        Don’t forget to be who you are. When you’re comfortable, you’re real. Show up to your friend’s house. Call unexpectedly. Drop by your colleague’s place for lunch. Be goofy or be intense. When you are who you are, you share a part of that with the other person, creating a stronger bond.                                                                                                                  

    8) Give real compliments ...                                 
 Sincere compliments show that you value your friend. Receiving praise stimulates our brain in the same way as if someone were to give us cash.The only difference is that compliments are free.Real compliments can be simple, kind observations, like “you’re really good with kids.” “I wish I had your head for numbers,” or “I like your glasses.”.                                                                                                                  9) Be honest ... 

  You don’t have to paint a rosy picture of you or your life. Be honest about who you are and how you feel. When you do this, people learn that they can trust what you say because you’re truthful with them.      For example, if you’re going through a break-up and your friend asks how you’re doing, you might want to come off as strong and say, “I’m good.” However, if you’re, in fact, not good, revealing this to your friend shows sincerity. “To be honest, not great, but I’m getting there.” When you say this, it indicates you trust your friend to know how you really feel, and that is bonding.                                                                                       10) Reach a little further and reach out to Thier significant others.....

                          Nothing says more that you care than when you reach beyond that person to their family and friends. Send birthday cards to their family members or loved ones. Buy a toy for their siblings or a snack for their pet. Families and friends are extensions of who we are, so when others notice us for those extensions, it creates stronger bonds.